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“I found myself, and then I could breathe.”
Take a 20-question test, explore 138 gender identities, and understand what actually separates one from another.
Wherever you are in this.
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138 words, each explained plainly: what it means, what it doesn’t, and who tends to feel at home in it.
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Agender or neutrois? Genderfluid or genderflux? Two words side by side, so you can feel which one is closer.
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Every path starts with one question.
20 questions, four minutes, no account needed. It suggests. You decide.
Nine categories.
138 identities.
Start where it feels closest to you. You can wander from there.
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A shortlist, not a verdict.
Nothing here can know your gender. What it can do is listen to what you said, notice who else has said something similar, and hand you the words worth reading next.
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Answer 20 questions
Short, concrete prompts about how you feel in your body, in language, in clothes and in groups. No trick questions.
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We listen for six things
How steady it feels, how strongly, how it sits with your body, with words, with other people. Six threads, kept separate.
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You get a shortlist
Not one answer. A handful of words that sound like what you described, and why each one turned up.
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You read and decide
Every suggestion links to a full guide so you can check it against your own life. The label is always your call.
Four things people mix up.
Gender identity is your internal sense of your own gender — not your body, not your clothes, not who you love. Almost every argument about gender starts by confusing these four.
Read the full explainer- Gender identity
- Your internal sense of your own gender. Only you have access to it, and it can stay the same your whole life or shift over time. Learn more
- Gender expression
- How you present outwardly — clothes, hair, voice, body language. Expression often signals identity, but it does not define it. Learn more
- Sex assigned at birth
- A label given by a doctor based on visible anatomy. It is a starting point on a form, not a conclusion about who you are. Learn more
- Sexual orientation
- Who you are attracted to. Entirely separate from gender identity, though the two are frequently confused. Learn more
Every flag we could verify.
See all 37 flagsTransgender
Non-Binary
Genderfluid
Agender
Demigender
Bigender
Genderqueer
Xenogender
Neutrois
Questioning
Intergender
Two-Spirit
The questions people actually ask.
All guidesWhat is gender identity? A plain-language explainer
The difference between identity, expression, sex assigned at birth and orientation — in plain words, with examples.
8 min read
Non-binary vs genderqueer: what actually differs
Two words with heavy overlap and different histories. When people use one over the other, and why it matters.
6 min read
Genderfluid vs genderflux, explained side by side
One changes which gender; the other changes how much. A simple way to tell them apart in your own experience.
5 min read
Am I trans? Questions worth sitting with
There is no test that answers this. There are, however, questions that make the answer easier to hear.
9 min read
Asked often,
answered plainly.
Questions our readers send us most. Nothing dressed up, nothing dodged.
What is gender identity?+
It is the sense you have of your own gender from the inside — man, woman, both, neither, or something with no tidy name. It is not the same as the body you were born with, and not the same as who you fall for.
Is gender identity the same as sexual orientation?+
No. Gender identity is about who you are; sexual orientation is about who you are drawn to. A trans woman can be straight, lesbian, bisexual or asexual — the two are independent of each other.
Can an online test tell me my gender?+
No test can. What ours does is listen to your answers and point you to people who describe something similar, so you have words to try on. It suggests. You decide.
What if none of the labels feel right?+
That is a common and completely valid outcome. Labels are tools, not verdicts. Many people sit with 'questioning' for months or years, and some never adopt a label at all.
Is the test anonymous?+
Yes. No account, no email, no tracking of your answers. Your results live in your browser and disappear when you clear it.
Not sure where you fit?
That's exactly what this is for. Twenty questions, four minutes, no account — and a reading list at the end instead of a label you didn't choose.
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