Gender identity

Maverique

There is definitely a gender there. It just isn't male, isn't female, isn't a blend of the two, and isn't neutral — it's its own thing, and the language for it doesn't exist yet.

Category
Non-Binary
Pronouns
Xe/Xem, Ze/Hir, Ey/Em, It/Its
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6 min

Overview

What maverique means.

Start with the part that gets missed. This is not an absence. You have a gender. You can feel it sitting in the room with you. It is simply not made of the materials everyone else's seems to be made of.

It is not male. Not female. Not a blend, not a halfway point, not a bit of both, and not neutral. Those are all positions on one map. Maverique is the claim that you are not on that map at all — and that you still have somewhere specific to stand.

The person who coined it used colour to explain it. Yellow is a primary colour. You cannot mix it out of anything else. That is the claim being made here: not a combination, not a dilution, not a gap. Its own ingredient.

Some honesty about the word itself. It was coined in June 2014 by a Tumblr blogger, Vesper H., who also designed the flag. It is a small term. Nearly everything written about it is first-person blog posts, wiki entries and conversation — no research, no long history, no settled agreement about its edges. People still argue about where maverique ends and aporagender begins. The word is young. What it points at may be much older.

You don't have to use it to be described by it. Plenty of people read a page like this, recognise themselves, and go on saying 'non-binary' out loud because that is the word that travels. That is a translation, not a demotion.

A specific non-binary gender characterized by autonomy and inner conviction about one's gender identity.

Maverique in one line

Origin

Where the word comes from

Maverique was coined in June 2014 by Tumblr blogger Vesper H., writing at Queer As Cat, specifically to describe a gender they felt 'neutrois' no longer captured. Vesper H. was explicit that they were coining a word for an already-existing gender experience, not inventing the experience itself, and released the definition across several revised drafts (v1.0 through v3.0) that same month as they refined the wording.

The name is a deliberate franglais blend: the English word 'maverick' plus the French adjectival suffix '-ique', pronounced 'mav-REEK' to rhyme with 'antique'. Vesper H. also designed the flag at the same time, explaining the yellow stripe through the idea of a primary colour that cannot be mixed from others — a visual argument for a gender that isn't a blend of male and female.

Coined by
Vesper H.
First recorded
2014
Where
Tumblr blog Queer As Cat

Signs people describe

Common experiences

None of these is a test. Most people recognise a few and shrug at the rest.

01

Man is wrong. Woman is wrong.

'Nothing, then' is also wrong. Three doors, three wrong answers.

02

You have explained your gender using a colour, a temperature or a sound, and then apologised for being strange about it.

03

Someone said 'so, basically agender' and you said 'not quite' and then couldn't finish the sentence.

04

The word neutral irritates you slightly and you cannot justify why.

05

You are sure. That is the odd part — no vocabulary, and no real doubt.

06

When friends talk about feeling more masc lately, or being in their femme era, you follow the words but not the feeling.

07

You dress androgynously as a truce with strangers, not because androgyny describes you.

08

'Non-binary' fits and still feels like handing someone a summary instead of an answer.

09

You have had sharp, specific gendered moments attached to things nobody else finds gendered at all.

10

You stopped expecting a word to exist years before you found one.

11

Being read as 'neither' bothers you in a way you can't defend, because neither is still an answer about them, not about you.

Day to day

What it looks like on a normal Tuesday

Most of it isn't dramatic. It's a queue in a coffee shop and a cheerful 'what can I get you, ladies'. You don't correct it. You are thinking about the coffee.

The dentist's form has two boxes. You tick the usual one and feel nothing much beyond a flat, familiar tiredness.

At work your pronouns are in your signature or they aren't. Either way nobody has asked what your gender actually is, and if they did you would say non-binary, because the meeting starts in four minutes.

Then something small lands. A jacket that sits right. A line in a song. Your reflection in a shop window at an angle you don't usually see yourself from. Gender, present, clearly yours, and still with no name on it.

That is the shape of most days. Long stretches of translation, and short private moments where nothing needs translating at all.

Across the parts of a life

Open the area you came here for.

Straight answers

What people get wrong

It's just non-binary with a fancier name.

Non-binary tells you what someone isn't. This adds a positive claim on top: something is present, it has a character, and it isn't built out of male, female or the space between them. Most people who use this word use both.

If you're not a man or a woman, you're somewhere in between.

In between is still on the line between two points. So is neutral — that's the midpoint. The whole claim here is that the line isn't where you are.

Not male and not female means empty.

Empty is agender. Neutral is neutrois. Both are real and both are different from this. Presence is the entire point.

It was made up on Tumblr in 2014, so it isn't real.

The word was, in June 2014, by one blogger. Every word for a gender or an orientation was made up by somebody, usually more recently than people assume. The age of a word tells you nothing about the age of the experience.

You're confused and haven't finished working it out.

Confusion isn't what people describe. The strange feature is the opposite — being very certain and completely unable to prove it, or even paraphrase it.

You have to look androgynous, use they/them and want surgery.

None of that follows. There are people using this word who have beards, who wear eyeliner, who kept the pronoun they were raised with because it's easier and it doesn't carry their gender anyway.

Picking a rare label is attention-seeking.

Nobody chooses a word that needs a ten-minute preamble in order to get attention. Precision like this mostly gets used in private, with two or three people, or with nobody.

Take care

On the hard days

The hard part usually isn't rejection. It's that nobody can picture you — including people who accept you completely, including other queer people.

At 3am that turns into one specific doubt: if I can't describe it, maybe I made it up. Look at what that argument actually rests on. You're treating a shortage of words as evidence about a feeling. Those are two different things.

Then there's the tiredness. Constant translation down to a shorter word, and the low ache of being understood approximately by everyone you know.

You will also meet people on your own side who think words like this are what's wrong with the community. That one stings more than the strangers do.

There's grief in it, and it's worth naming plainly. Most people will never see this accurately. What is actually on offer is a handful who do, which turns out to be enough more often than it sounds like it would be.

On the bad days, lower the bar. You don't have to explain anything to anyone today. The word is a tool for you, not a case you have to win in public.

And if it goes past tired into something darker, say it out loud to one person. It doesn't have to be about gender to be worth saying.

Pronouns

Pronouns

Nothing about pronouns follows from this. There is no set that comes with the word.

They/them is the most common, mostly because it is the one strangers can manage. Some people use it/its on purpose and mean it warmly. Some use neopronouns — ey/em, xe/xem, ze/hir. Some use he or she, either the one they grew up with or the other one, because a pronoun is a handle and doesn't carry their gender either way.

Some use several sets. Some use none and ask for their name every time.

If you speak a language where adjectives and past participles are gendered — Italian, Spanish, Arabic, Hebrew, Polish, Portuguese and many others — you already know English has the easy version of this problem. People use the -e or schwa endings, mix forms deliberately, or rebuild the sentence to dodge the ending. None of it is settled, and what works in one country's community often doesn't in another's.

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Consider another path

This might not be your word if…

  • 1Your gender feels like a mix, or a point somewhere between man and woman. That is closer to androgyne.
  • 2The honest answer to 'what is your gender doing' is 'nothing, and that's fine'. That's agender.
  • 3Neutral is exactly the right word. That's neutrois, and neutral is a real thing to be.
  • 4It moves — one thing some weeks, something else other weeks. That's genderfluid, which this isn't.
  • 5You're mostly a woman or mostly a man with something else at the edges. Look at demigirl and demiboy first.
  • 6What you actually want is for strangers to stop clocking you. That's a wish about being perceived. Many identities share it, and on its own it doesn't point here.
  • 7Your reason is intellectual — you think the binary is nonsense and won't participate. That's a position. It can sit alongside a gender, but it isn't one by itself.
  • 8The feeling is there while you're reading lists of labels at 2am and gone by Tuesday lunchtime. Wait. Words don't expire.
  • 9You want a word other people will recognise. This is not that word and it isn't going to become it.
  • 10The appeal is that it's rare. That wears off in about a month and leaves you holding a bad fit.

Questions people ask

Frequently asked questions

How do I know if I'm maverique and not just non-binary?+

Non-binary is the umbrella. This is a specific claim underneath it, and you can hold both. The test is what happens after 'not a man, not a woman'. If that sentence feels complete, non-binary may be all you need. If it feels like the first half — if there's something present that the sentence hasn't described yet, and it isn't neutral or absent — that's the gap this word was made for.

Is it the same as agender or neutrois?+

No, and the difference is the whole point. Agender is gender as absence. Neutrois is a neutral or null gender. Maverique is presence — something with its own character that simply isn't male, female or the neutral point between them. If 'nothing' or 'neutral' lands as the right word for you, one of those two fits better, and neither is a lesser answer.

Is it a real gender, or just a Tumblr word from 2014?+

Both halves are true and they don't contradict each other. The word was coined on Tumblr in June 2014 by one person, the community using it is small, and there's no research behind it. Every word for a gender or an orientation was invented by somebody, usually recently, usually by a handful of people first. What the word's age can't tell you is whether the experience it describes existed before anyone named it. You will meet people, some of them queer, who don't take it seriously. That is worth knowing before you use it out loud.

Do I need dysphoria, or to medically transition, for this to apply?+

No. Some people who use this word have significant dysphoria and pursue medical transition. Some have none and want nothing changed. There's no body that reads as this to strangers anyway, so there's no standard destination to measure yourself against. Access matters too: in much of the world that care doesn't exist, isn't affordable, or isn't safe to ask for. None of it is a requirement.

The flag

Three horizontal stripes — yellow on top, white in the middle, orange at the bottom — designed by the coiner, Vesper H., in June 2014: yellow for a primary gender that can't be mixed from other colours, white for a blank slate independent of the binary, orange for inner conviction and the maverick in the name.

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