Overview
What māhū means.
Māhū means in the middle. Not half kāne and half wahine — the place between them, which in Hawaiian thinking is an actual location rather than a gap between two real things.
The word belongs to Kānaka Maoli (Native Hawaiians) and Māʻohi (Tahitians). If you have no Hawaiian or Tahitian ancestry and no standing in those communities, this page is not describing you. Read it if you want to understand someone. Don't take the word home.
Historically the position came with jobs. Keepers of genealogy and chant. Teachers of hula. Healers. The ones who raised other people's children. Four māhū healers are said to have brought the healing arts from Tahiti to Oʻahu; their stones sit at the western end of Kūhiō Beach in Waikīkī, and you can go and stand in front of them.
Then missionaries, then American law. In 1963 Hawaiʻi criminalised dressing with intent to deceive, and māhū working in Honolulu had to wear a button reading I Am A Boy or face arrest, a $500 fine and often a beating. That clause was not deleted until 1972. The women who wore those buttons are alive.
So the word carries two things at once. Depending on the mouth it comes out of, it is your grandmother naming you plainly, or a boy shouting from a truck.
Kānaka do not fully agree on the edges. Some use māhū only for people raised in the culture with a cultural role. Some use it as the ordinary Hawaiian word for trans and gender-diverse Kānaka. Some elders still won't say it. All of that argument is live right now, inside the community.
One honesty note. Much of what circulates online about pre-contact māhū is thinner than it sounds. Missionaries did most of the writing down and they were not neutral observers. Be careful with anyone who tells you exactly how it worked in 1700.
A traditional third gender in Hawaiian and Tahitian cultures, often respected as healers and teachers.
Māhū in one line
Origin
Where the word comes from
Māhū describes a recognised 'in the middle' position in traditional Hawaiian (Kanaka Maoli) and Tahitian (Māʻohi) society, historically associated with roles such as keeping genealogy and chant, teaching hula, and healing. The best-documented healing tradition is that of four māhū healers said to have brought the healing arts from Tahiti to Oʻahu; their memorial stones stand today at the western end of Kūhiō Beach in Waikīkī, having been excavated and restored after decades built over, including by a bowling alley.
Missionary influence from the early 1800s onward began stigmatising māhū, and this hardened into law in the twentieth century: in 1963 Hawaiʻi passed an 'intent to deceive' cross-dressing law, enforced by requiring māhū and other trans and gender-nonconforming people working in Honolulu to wear a button reading 'I Am A Boy' or face arrest and fines. That clause remained in force until 1972. Much of what circulates online about precise pre-contact status is thinner than it sounds, since missionaries did most of the early writing and were not neutral observers — a caution this page's own text already raises.
- Where
- Hawaiian Islands and Tahiti (Kanaka Maoli and Māʻohi peoples); precolonial through present
Signs people describe
Common experiences
None of these is a test. Most people recognise a few and shrug at the rest.
The word arrived before you did.
Someone called you māhū at school, or an auntie said it flatly across a table, years before you had any language of your own.
You got handed the babies and the elders without anyone deciding it.
You stayed back in the kitchen. You sat with Tūtū at the end.
In the middle reads to you as an address, not a compromise.
You don't feel suspended between two things. You feel located.
Responsibility came early.
Being māhū never felt like a private matter about you alone.
You're the one who kept the names, the genealogy, the words to the chant nobody else bothered to learn.
At hālau you were placed somewhere that didn't match what people expected, and it was correct.
Are you a boy or a girl doesn't feel like a hard question.
It feels like the wrong question, asked in the wrong language.
Away from the islands the word stops working.
People hear it, reach for trans or nonbinary, and you let them, and it costs you something small every time.
You have a complicated relationship with your family's church and you still turn up.
The same word is your inheritance and the thing yelled at you in a car park.

Day to day
What it looks like on a normal Tuesday
You wake up somewhere that costs too much. Your mother's back room, a shared flat, or a place on the continent you moved to because Hawaiʻi priced you out.
Work is work. A hotel desk, a classroom, a ward, a shop, a hālau. Somewhere in the day a visitor asks you something about Hawaiian culture and you decide, again, how much to give away for free.
Forms have two boxes. You tick one and carry on, because that is not today's fight.
Evening might be practice. Chant, a meeting, a funeral to help arrange, or your niece's homework at your table because your sister works nights.
Somebody older than you calls you Auntie. Somebody at Foodland says māhū with a smile and means nothing by it. Somebody says it again at ten at night and means something else entirely. Same word, twice, eight hours apart.
Across the parts of a life
Open the area you came here for.
Straight answers
What people get wrong
Māhū is just the Hawaiian word for gay.
Aikāne is the old word about who you love and lie down with. Māhū is about where you stand. Most māhū are attracted to men; some are not; and it is not what makes anyone māhū.
Māhū is the Hawaiian word for transgender.
There is real overlap, and plenty of māhū use both words comfortably. But some māhū never medically transition, never intended to, and are not one bit less māhū. And some Kanaka trans people don't use māhū at all.
Māhū is a slur.
It was made into one — by missionaries, then a law, then a playground. It was a description first, and it is in open use again. Whether it is a slur in a given sentence depends entirely on who is speaking.
Old Hawaiʻi honoured every māhū.
Rank and family mattered in Hawaiʻi as much as gender did. Standing went with role and skill. The nostalgic version flattens a complicated society into a poster, and the poster helps nobody.
Anyone who feels in the middle can be māhū.
It comes attached to ancestry, place and people. Feeling in the middle in Ohio does not make you māhū, and the Kānaka you would be borrowing from are not in a position to lend.
Being māhū makes you wise and spiritual.
That is the brochure. Some māhū are kumu and healers. Some are broke, funny, difficult, brilliant, unremarkable. A role is not a personality, and being in the middle does not come with a temperament.
Kapaemahu is a nice legend.
The stones are physically there on Kūhiō Beach. They were built over — a bowling alley sat on top of them for years — then dug out and restored. Legend and concrete, at the same address.
Take care
On the hard days
The word still gets thrown. Usually by a man, usually from a moving vehicle, sometimes by a cousin who will insist he was joking.
Sundays are hard for a lot of māhū. The church that raised you is often the same institution that took the word apart in the first place, and you still know all the hymns.
Then there is the money. Hawaiʻi is one of the most expensive places in the world to live, and enormous numbers of Kānaka are on the continent because of it — away from the language, the hālau, the graves, everything that made the word mean anything.
There is the exhibition problem. You get photographed, quoted, put on a panel. Then the funding ends, the crew flies home, and your rent is the same as it was.
And there is what happened within living memory. Until 1972 Hawaiʻi could arrest you for intent to deceive if you weren't wearing your I Am A Boy button. Some days that is history. Some days it reads as a weather forecast.
You will also bury people. Māhū are often the ones who arrange the funeral, chant at it, hold the family upright through it, and then drive home alone.


Pronouns
Pronouns
ʻŌlelo Hawaiʻi never made anyone pick. The pronoun ia covers he, she and they. In Hawaiian, nobody has to sort you before they can speak to you — English is the language that demands the box.
In English, māhū use she, he, they, or more than one depending on the room. Many māhū wahine have used she since they were teenagers. Others answer to their name, or to Kumu, or to Auntie, and find pronouns the least interesting question about them.
Māhū is not a pronoun. It is also not a polite Hawaiian word for trans. Ask, don't assume.
Consider another path
This might not be your word if…
- 1You have no Kanaka Maoli or Māʻohi ancestry. However exactly the description fits you, the word is not available. Keep the recognition, leave the word, go and find yours.
- 2You're Pacific but not Hawaiian or Tahitian. Your own people have their own word for this, with your own history in it, and it will fit you better than a borrowed one.
- 3You're Kanaka, but in the middle is not where you are. You're a woman, full stop, and always were. That is not a lesser thing and māhū is not a promotion.
- 4You're Kanaka and gay, and the middle has nothing to do with it. Aikāne is the older word for that and it is equally yours.
- 5You want the standing without the obligations. Māhū came with work — teaching, keeping, caring, turning up at funerals. If you only want the admired half, that shows quickly and in public.
- 6You came to it through a documentary, a travel article, or a video about ancient Hawaiian third genders, and there is not one living person in your life who would use the word about you.
- 7You want a word for your feelings about gender only, with no family, no place and nobody to answer to. That is a real need and there are real words for it. This is not one of them.
Questions people ask
Frequently asked questions
What does māhū actually mean?+
In the middle. In ʻōlelo Hawaiʻi and in Tahitian it names a person standing between kāne and wahine rather than at either end. Historically it also implied a role — keeper of genealogy and chant, teacher of hula, healer, carer of other people's children. It is a gender and a position at once, and the second half is precisely what does not survive translation into English.
Is māhū a slur?+
Entirely depends on who is saying it. Missionaries stigmatised it, twentieth-century Hawaiʻi turned it into a schoolyard insult, and that meaning is still live — plenty of Kānaka over sixty flinch at the sound of it. It is also back in ordinary use, taught by kumu and used by people about themselves. If you're not Kanaka, don't use it about anyone who hasn't used it about themselves first.
Can I be māhū if I'm not Native Hawaiian or Tahitian?+
No. It is a Hawaiian and Tahitian word belonging to Kānaka Maoli and Māʻohi, and no Kanaka māhū leader has asked outsiders to take it up. This isn't gatekeeping for sport — a great deal has already been taken from Hawaiians and resold. The genuine edge cases are argued over inside the community: diaspora Kānaka raised far from the islands, people with Hawaiian family but no community standing, non-Kanaka locals who got called māhū in the playground alongside everyone else. Feeling in the middle in a country with no Hawaiians in it is not one of the edge cases.
Is māhū the same as transgender, Two-Spirit or faʻafafine?+
No to all three, with genuine overlap on the first. Many māhū wahine also call themselves trans women and use each word in a different room; others never medically transition and never wanted to. Two-Spirit is North American, coined in 1990, standing in for hundreds of distinct Native nations' own roles — a different ocean entirely. Faʻafafine is Samoan and belongs to Sāmoa. They rhyme. They do not translate.
The flag
Date conflict and emblem — lgbtqia.wiki says an anonymous submitter to ask-pride-color-schemes on 2016-01-20, but the fetched post is dated 2016-12-19; the flag carries a pamakani plant emblem; gender.fandom.com lists the page as missing a flag.
Sources
- 'I am a boy': The simple button that was Honolulu's scarlet letter — Hawaii News Now Supports the 1963 law and 'I Am A Boy' button history; fetched 2026-09-06.
- I am a Boy — Stanford Humanities Center Corroborates the 1963 Hawaii cross-dressing law and its enforcement; fetched 2026-09-06.
- Kapaemahu: Toward Story Sovereignty of a Hawaiian Tradition of Healing and Gender Diversity — Hamer & Wong-Kalu Supports the Kapaemahu healer-stones history at Kūhiō Beach; fetched 2026-09-06.

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