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Gender identities, described properly.

A library of 138 identities, a test that suggests rather than decides, and a site that tells you how it’s paid for.

Two illustrated characters sewing transgender and non-binary pride flags in a warm workshop

What MyGender is

A library. 138 gender identities in 9 categories, each written up as an experience rather than a dictionary line: what it feels like, how it plays out at work and at home, how to tell it apart from the ones next to it, and honest reasons it might not be you.

A test. It scores your answers on your own device and shows the identities that fit that shape, ranked, with the near-misses included. It suggests. You decide. It never tells you what you are; that part was never ours.

The result is free, all of it, and it stays in your browser. It is never put in a link, a receipt or an email.

There are no ads on this site today. Two things are for sale, both offered once, after the free result: a PDF report built from your own answers ($19) and the report plus a kit for explaining yourself to the people around you ($39). Payment is taken by Stripe. They are on sale now. Nothing you need sits behind a paywall: the library, the test and the whole result stay free. The terms of sale say the rest.

Who writes it

Kai MossEditor (pen name)

Edits, checks and signs off every page on this site.

Kai Moss is the pen name of MyGender’s editor, who builds and runs the site. Not a clinician. Every page lists its sources and is checked against them.

MyGender is an independent reference. It is not run by a clinic, a charity or a campaign.

How the pages are made

Plainly: every page starts as a draft written with AI assistance, working from how the community actually uses each word and from the documentation that exists for it.

The editor, Kai Moss, then checks it against its sources, edits it and signs it off. Every page shows the date it was last updated.

When something is wrong, tell us and we correct it, and the correction is dated. The editorial policy has the detail, including what ads may and may not do.

What we don’t do

  • We don’t store your result. It stays in your browser, and only there.
  • We don’t put ads on the test or the result. Conversion and trust are not for rent.
  • We don’t run countdowns, fake counters or “X people took the test”. Every number on this site is computed from the data behind it when the site is built.
  • We don’t invent flags. 35 of the 138 identities show a flag with a settled stripe set; 26 of those carry a designer and a date on record, and the rest say so on their flag page. The other 103 identities show a hatched swatch and say so.

Contact

There is no contact address yet. When there is one, it will be listed here.

Last updated . Privacy is on its own page.